More Older Women Are Dating Younger Men, Survey Says Here’s Why

I truly think some men have that mid-life crisis to where they feel the need to reassess themselves and their life. Being able to date younger women makes some men feel desired and still in the game. Just my opinion based on countless articles I’ve read and people I know and talk to. As far as sex drive goes, I can only speak for myself at age 50 and say that I have no problems in that department. If you are physically able, attraction to sex has a lot to do with the mind.

I couldn’t disagree more on the age thing. Look thru a handful or more on Match or any other site and women over 55, as an example, are just as restricvtive on age range than the younger generations. I defy anyone to show me otherwise. 55+ how about us that are over 50 but not yet 55?

Love is something that should bring people together, free of judgment and without fear of opening up. People who confide in you do it with the trust that you will keep an open mind to their situation as they will to yours. It’s not uncommon to meet divorcees or widowers in your sixties, and you should afford them the same courtesy of not judging them before getting to know them as they would to you. Do not get involved with someone from the past who is in a current relationship!

Men expect women to be physically attractive and to take care of their appearance.

I was 26 the second time around and that relationship lasted 19 years, 16 years married. He wanted out because I was not good enough for him after he got two Masters degrees. I was fine for him when he was poor though. I supported his efforts to want to make a better life for us. Once he became successful I was booted out of his life. I’ve always valued honesty on both sides, and that’s the way I’ve strived to live my life.

You may meet Mr. Wrong, Mr. Mostly Wrong then Mr. Really Wrong, then Mr. Kind of Right before meeting Mr. Right. Or Mr. Right might be the second one you meet. A women in her 50s should be looking for partners in their 60s.

I waited four years before I dated again. Plus, I needed to process everything and there was A LOT! Had hired a private investigator, everything what I thought to be true was not. Realized what a Covert Narcissist was – no joke, certifiable. Nevertheless, dated a guy that I once dated when I was in my 20’s. Was sort of fun for about two months.

Expectations men older than 60 have of women when dating

When most of the people here are married or have a girlfriend, the odds go down. At least there are women over 50 who are honest in the descriptions and make it very clear that they are no longer interested in sex. Even if you found a woman believe me after a while you would not live up to her expectations.

Now that I’ve changed what I’m looking for to include marriage, I get many more woman wanting to talk and meet up with me. “Children, grandchildren, work, groups, etc., so finding time to be dating or be with someone who is more mature can be a bit difficult to schedule. You will figure it out if you both are willing to make the time,” says Rappaport. “My date-coaching clients over 60 frequently ask why men go immediately from one relationship to the next without any pause.

Many woman after menopause want sex too as they don’t have to worry about getting pregnant and those of us that take care of ourselves are better in bed than most men our age. I am not looking for a physical relationship with 50 somethings though the ladies would like physical sex. Hi Greg….Kudos to you for even attempting to date women closer to your age. I am 56, widowed for 4 years, and keep in good shape. I do not have to be wined and dined. Raised 3 sons, and consider live life to the fullest as having sex regularly!!

Try to meet people in person, dating online is too risky and too many fakes are out there. It’s tough to be lonely, but it’s tougher to deal with con artists, drama queens, and desperate women. Women in America all want the best and won’t settle for any flaws. Most also have age, income, height requirements.

I am gun shy so I am too quick to see red flags and end things, although try to do it kindly. Then regret it, but by then it’s already done. I live in the PNW and dating is a faded memory for me. End of this year will be 10 years since I had a date. I want to find a women who is like minded, I find attractive and will be my best friend. There is some that are like minded, but there is a lot of very large women and I will not date them.

They actually encourage me to look for someone else. It is a horrible situation for sure. The decent and caring among us can’t find each other for something real and fulfilling.

Moving every 18 months or so made it very difficult for me to start a business or once started, relocating even farther from my target market area. We even had 2 rentals a state away I managed and maintained. The last house, I started one year ago and she immediately took a job in another state…I finally finished in November. Made great money, I thought we were happy and kept thinking this is too perfect. She praised me constantly, we never fought.